Beauty or personality?

[kirubel]

Many people believe that personality matters more than appearance; in fact, they would rather be with someone with a strong personality than someone with good looks.

Which do you value more in a partner: attractiveness or personality?

 

[arunima]

Personality is your inner beauty. It's beauty deep within you and beneath your skin. Beauty can fade away. It can change with external conditions like ageing and other factors. But inner beauty stays forever. So, I would go for something that is long lasting.
Moreover, your beauty( outside appearance) can not stand too long without the support of your inner personality. It is hollow.

 

[saoussen5765]

Sometimes you find someone who is a beautiful person but doesn't have any personality so he may follow any pop star lifestyle without thinking if this is suitable to your case or not. And this is a bad thing so you need to have a strong personality this is the most important thing.

 

[Fidelia]

I won't dare trade one for another. I need the appearance to have you appealing to me. You can't have personality and you are looking like a zombie. You won't have any appeal to me. I know and I have met people that have both. And that is what I would settle for.

 

[Kross]

Personality matters more than appearance for me. After the end of it all, it is the personality of a person that you are going to keep relating with and not the looks. It is the personality that would determine if you would have peace with that person or not. I value the personality of a person more than the appearance.

 

[Henrywrites]

While beauty can be seen as a big factor, I still see personality as one thing that I should seriously consider. I wouldn't want to get married to someone that lacks the personality to do greater things in life no matter how beautiful that they look.

 

[kirubel]

Sometimes you find someone who is a beautiful person but doesn't have any personality so he may follow any pop star lifestyle without thinking if this is suitable to your case or not. And this is a bad thing so you need to have a strong personality this is the most important thing.

It's true that sometimes gorgeous individuals have awful personalities, but let's face it: would you really want to spend your time with an unattractive individual just because their personality is nice? I mean, will you introduce them to your friends and parents without worrying about how your family will react?

 

[freelancermaria]

Meeting someone who is good-looking and has a pleasant demeanor is good. However, beauty fades over time, whereas a good/kind heart lasts forever. So, if I had to choose one, I would go with personality. I can't stand people who are attractive yet have poor character.

 

[saoussen5765]

It's true that sometimes gorgeous individuals have awful personalities, but let's face it: would you really want to spend your time with an unattractive individual just because their personality is nice? I mean, will you introduce them to your friends and parents without worrying about how your family will react?

In this world, it is becoming hard because people do not accept it even if you accept to be in a relationship with it. This means it does lead to separation later or even marriage doesn't still a long time.

 

[kirubel]

Meeting someone who is good-looking and has a pleasant demeanor is good. However, beauty fades over time, whereas a good/kind heart lasts forever. So, if I had to choose one, I would go with personality. I can't stand people who are attractive yet have poor character.

It is true that beauty ages and that some attractive people behave badly, but the truth is that many people value beauty more than other qualities. Almost all of the interviews I've seen on TikTok and YouTube focus on attractiveness, and only those who are older than 30 select personality.

 

[arunima]

I totally agree with statements made by users above. We all know that personality stays for longer time and is what actually determines the person in a holistic way. You fall in love in true sense with the holistic personality of the person abd not the exterior beauty alone. But then one can not deny the harsh fact that world has more number of people who go for outer beauty. Most people don't develop that depth of judging people unless they reach a certain level of maturity with age and experience.
And one person has raised the concern that one might not be comfortable with introducing his/her romantic partner to others if he/ she is not presentable. I would disagree there. If you really love someone, you would have no hesitation to take that person out in the world with you. If you are still having such doubts in your mind, you need to introspect your relationship. There is something terribly wrong with your relationship if you are not confident about your partner's look and personality.
And when you truly love someone, you will find that person the most beautiful one in the world. It is rightly said that Beauty lies in the eye of the beholder.

 

[Augusta]

Many people believe that personality matters more than appearance; in fact, they would rather be with someone with a strong personality than someone with good looks.

Which do you value more in a partner: attractiveness or personality?

This is just me l love to be around great personality. Some people with the good looks have mean and nasty personally. So if you are kind and welcoming then you are for me

 

[Augusta]

Many people believe that personality matters more than appearance; in fact, they would rather be with someone with a strong personality than someone with good looks.

Which do you value more in a partner: attractiveness or personality?

This is just me l love to be around great personality. Some people with the good looks have mean and nasty personally. So if you are kind and welcoming then you are for me

 

[kirubel]

This is just me l love to be around great personality. Some people with the good looks have mean and nasty personally. So if you are kind and welcoming then you are for me

It's true that we all like to be around positive people and feel good about ourselves when we do, but because of the way humans behave, we lack the confidence to be with unattractive people even when they are positive individuals.